I have a rather inexplicable fondness for housekeeping books, a habit that has endowed me with a steady supply of them over the years. To be honest, I can't really explain this habit except to wonder if it's not a quietly self-serving way of finding out that I'm already doing everything right. In personality, I tend to lean strongly in the direction of cleanliness and organization: my spices are organized alphabetically and by use; my closets are divided by season and color; my books are arranged by genre and then by year of publication; for a time, I even used to iron my sheets (until I realized that a higher cotten count in a hot dryer basically makes this superfluous). My husband is, if possible, even worse that I am. All beds must be made with "hospital corners" and all of the clothes in his bureau must be folded according to military regulation. Don't even get me started on those stupid pleats in the uniform... And when we were first married, he used to follow me around after I'd already vacuumed and locate pieces of lint that didn't make it into the vacuum cleaner. We're quite a pair, we are. I don't think there's any point in people asking why we don't have children: please see above.
All of this to say that I was glancing through my housekeeping books last week, and I thought I might do a quick review of them. There are four, in particular, that I would consider the most significant of my housekeeping tomes, so those are the ones I'll mention.
Home Comforts, by Cheryl MendelsonScribner, 1999: 884 pages

This might be the book that prompted bookstores to begin carrying more housekeeping material, and I suspect it's considered the most authoritative housekeeping book on the market. I've known about it for years, and my mom bought it when it first came out. After that, she gave it as a gift to every young lady we knew that was getting married -- except for me, apparently. I received a different book (see
Making a Home below) but have always wanted to own this one. Every year around my birthday I would mention it to my mom, and she would say, "Oh, I thought you had that!" Not surprisingly, I never received it from her as a gift. I finally found it marked way down at Half-Priced Books one day and snatched it up. (At which point, I mentioned it to my mom, and she said, "Oh, I thought you had that!" The sound you now hear is my palm hitting my forehead.)
Anyway, my feeling about
Home Comforts is that it is a great book, but as I look through it again I'm tempted to say that it's a great book for someone who is already comfortable with housekeeping. To be honest, this is a pretty intimidating book, and I wonder if someone who is trying to improve housekeeping skills wouldn't shriek and run from it in horror. To begin with, there's the size. It's almost 900 pages and covers everything from keeping food safe to caring for ceramic tile. And it's not exactly 900 pages of pictures. Most of the book is text, so the reader has to read pretty hard. This one's no skimmer, that's for sure. But more than this is Mendelson's tone, which has bothered me from the first time I picked up the book. She's a very professional writer but not a terribly sympathetic housekeeper. Did you know that there's only one way to wash dishes correctly?
Only one! And if you didn't know this, well she pulls out the ruler and smacks your wrist. Honestly, it feels at times as though she's a schoolmarm ready to punish an unruly student. I can't complain about most of the information (although it gets a little overwhelming at times), but I don't mind saying that you get a full dose of Cheryl Mendelson in addition to that information. Take this one with an open mind and the ability to strain out a writer's tone.
Making a HomeBetter Homes and Gardens, 2001: 382 pages

This is the book that I received in lieu of
Home Comforts, and in retrospective I'm glad of it. The subtitle of
Making a Home is "Housekeeping for Real Life," and I think that statement summarizes its purpose fairly well. Simply put, this is a more realistic approach to modern housekeeping that takes into account the ways that people really live. While it might be interesting to know the
traditionally correct way of washing dishes, what about people who don't have a double sink or the other "required" means at their disposal?
Making a Home focuses more on how to actually get the dishes clean and leaves the method up to the individual. The book does have a great deal in the way of traditional housekeeping info, of course. There are plenty of useful tidbits about how to set a formal table or how to select the right equipment for a complete kitchen, but the book also offers variants. How about a formal but friendly table for the times that you're not entertaining the queen? How about the right equipment for a family of two, or for a busy family of four? This is real life, and these are the details that help real people out.
I have a small confession about this book that is part of its appeal for me: the publishers used a great deal of color organization and helpful pictures. I'm aware that this was largely a "curb appeal" technique on their part, but it worked.
Making a Home is the kind of book that you grab and consult when you need to find something useful in a hurry. By contrast,
Home Comforts is the kind of book that you read propped up on the couch with a cup of tea. For simple housekeeping requirements, I personally prefer the former, so the former book has far more appeal for me. No, it's not as in-depth, but few people need to know the history of wool manufacturing when trying to figure out how to launder that wool sweater; they need something that is easy to read and has a list of basic information. For me,
Making a Home fits this requirement nicely.
Green Housekeeping, by Ellen SandbeckScribner, 2006: 426 pages

A couple of years ago, Ellen Sandbeck published a book entitled
Organic Housekeeping. I didn't buy it for myself at the time, but I did buy it for my mom as a requested gift, and I had a chance to browse through it. When I saw
Green Housekeeping in the bookstore, and with a gift card burning a hole in my pocket, I thought I had hit the jackpot. Even better than organic housekeeping --
green housekeeping! Well, I discovered something when I got the book home. Basically, Ellen Sandbeck or her publishers decided to capitalize on the whole green movement and simply gave the book a new title, repackaging it in a recycled binding. (Literally. The cover is made of recycled material.) Okay. Well, I was a little irritated, but since I liked the concept behind
Organic Housekeeping I figured this one would do just as well.
This book essentially explains the way to do housekeeping with as little waste and damage to the environment as possible. The less, the better. Sandbeck indicates that the majority of houses can be cleaned with vinegar, baking soda, borax, and water -- not necessarily mixed together. (By the way, this isn't entirely true, but that's for another discussion.) She recommends things like line drying clothes and using green plants to freshen the air. If you're in the mood to repaint your house, she has a few handy hints about which paint to select. All in all, this book has a great deal of useful information that the reader can pick and choose at will. Honestly, unless I lived in the country with a completely sustainable house and a very green thumb, there would be no way to follow her guidelines to the letter. But I don't necessarily think her goal is to get everyone 100% of the way there. Getting some people 30% of the way there makes a positive difference, and that goes a long way toward helping the environment.
For the most part, this book contains a great deal of practical information. My only real complaint about it is that it's oddly organized. For some reason, I always get lost when I start to flip through it, and I don't entirely understand the book's set up. Fortunately, it does have a good glossary, but I wish it were organized more sensibly. As a result, I'm not necessarily sure that I'd recommend people buying this book. Checking it out from the library and making some notes would probably suffice for most people.
Mrs. Dunwoody's Excellent Instructions for Homekeeping, by Miriam LukkenWarner Books, 2003: 266 pages

This is kind of a guilty pleasure as a housekeeping book. My husband bought it for me when we were living in South Carolina, and I went through a phrase during which I became convinced that my purpose in life was to become a stately Southern matron. Mercifully, I have left that phase behind, but I'm glad I picked up the book along the way. Written in the manner of a Southern lady's housekeeping (or "homekeeping" as the author insists on calling it) journal, the book covers a variety of topics from the basics of caring for a home to the need for good manners on all occasions. However frivolous the outside design, the information contained within is heavy in practicality, and most readers will probably find themselves saying, "Wow -- I didn't know that!" and "Huh -- what a good idea!"
In some ways, this is kind of a silly book to own, and it doesn't contain anything that you would be unable to find elsewhere. But there's something about the way that it's presented that makes it so enjoyable. The layout of the book is very easy to follow, and it has an excellent selection of details. Some of them are a little dated (umm...does anyone actually use fuller's earth and dried fowl's dung to get the scorching out of linens anymore?), but a great deal of them are timeless in their application (did you know that lavender oil and alcohol repel mosquitoes? I'll take those over Off! any day of the week). If I could only own two housekeeping books, I would probably have
Making a Home and this one. It's a fun read, and honestly contains a number of the "green living" tips that Ellen Sandbeck's book contains, but with a far better presentation.
Summary:So, that's that, I suppose.
Making a Home has gotten the most use from me, followed by
Mrs. Dunwoody. The other two books are useful, but I can see how not owning them won't hurt anyone. As most housekeeping books are meant to be owned, I'd recommend checking on any of them at the library first before leaping into a purchase. And, frankly, with the rising cost of...well, everything, I'd always try to locate these books used. After all, economy in housekeeping purchases is one of the first recommendations from all of these authors.